Dating women with issues
We’ll hardly ever be the first ones to call/text you at the beginning.This is especially true if we really like you, because we’ve been ghosted by several douchebags who thought it was desperate or needy of us to send a simple text.If you go to drop your kid off to your ex and end up staying out all night “hanging out with the guys,” it looks an awful lot like you spent the night having sex with your ex.It’s not that we don’t want you to have a life, but you can’t wave red flags in our faces and expect us to look the other way (we’ve done that, and that’s why we have trust issues). We start out so young and innocent, ready to jump in with both feet and believe in the fairytale.That naivety lasts as long as our first real heartbreak, and then we begin the process of becoming more guarded.
You may see it as paranoia, but we see it as a necessity to protect ourselves from getting hurt again. If you used to leave your phone lying around unlocked, and suddenly it’s in your pocket blowing up with texts, we’ll notice and assume it’s probably another girl.
You’ll need to prove it by having serious discussions about the timeframe in which you want this to happen, how many kids you want, parenting styles, finances, religion (or the lack of it), and how it will affect both of your career paths.