If marriage is in your future, the time to start thinking about it is now.
Women love men who can be real and authentic.” After giving him some field-tested techniques and powerful mindsets to glide his path, I sent him out to the bars and clubs of New York City. It’s so moving to see a good guy shed self-doubt and learn that girls like him for who he is.
On a rooftop bar in Manhattan’s Meatpacking District, Ken saw a Gwyneth Paltrow lookalike in a short, yellow dress. Maybe you feel imprisoned in the “friend zone.” Maybe you run out of things to say. They’re mental cul-de-sacs made from false assumptions. He’d told himself a story—that he was rejected by an entire gender.
At one point, a brainy NYU grad student grabbed his i Phone, punched in her number and insisted he take her out. Maybe an invisible force seems to keep you from approaching that stunner at Starbucks. Those thoughts and beliefs are fictions, not facts.
You can finally stop hearing “Let’s be friends” and start hearing “Let’s go to your place.” All while being the REAL you, not some persona. I want you to be Channel the most distilled version of you. When the typical guy is on a date or out meeting women, he wears a mask.
He plays the part of the Nice Guy or the Arrogant Jerk or the Pickup Artist.
But how often does she meet a friendly, charming man who walks up and flirts in a disarming way? I’ll never forget what a model said as she was complaining about all the arrogant, self-involved jerks she meets in L. You don’t learn attraction so much as you forget what’s causing interference, resistance and fear.