Dating a cheap guy
Imagine sharing a joint checking account with a man who has tightwad tendencies. Do you trust in his willingness and ability to make joint decisions as well?
If you cannot honestly answer yes, then think long and hard before committing yourself further.
Surveys designed to reveal the top sources of stress in troubled marriages consistently identify one thing that rises above the rest.
You might expect some issue related to sex, infidelity, in-laws, or child rearing. The consistent “winner” is money — conflict over earning it, prioritizing its relative importance in life, judging what is enough, and, above all, deciding how to spend it…or not spend it.
If you rarely seem to find common ground, it is probably time to start looking for the exit. Does your partner’s frugality reflect a general lack of generosity?
The way a man uses money offers clues about his personality, deep-down beliefs, and outlook on life.
Money is a sticky dating subject, and one of the top reasons couples break up.
While flashy shows of overspending may indicate someone who is foolish with his funds, a date who keeps his wallet on total lockdown is also flying financial red flags. Coffee dates are fine for first dates, but after that, if he can't invest more than a dollar or two, it might be time to question how much he values your company.
If the answer appears to be “no” on the subject of money, do yourself a favor and make a decisive to move on sooner rather than later. Does your partner allow room for differences, or is he determined to change your views to match his own?
"If he wants to split an entrée, it can be a sign that he is planning to split a whole lot more with you—his time, his energy, every dinner bill in your near future," says dating coach Marni Battista, founder of Dating with Dignity.
See also: 10 Dating Rules for People Who Hate Dating 3. There's nothing worse than a guy who invites you out and springs the "women's equality" argument when it's time to pay.
In dating, this fact is doubly difficult because the subject of money is generally viewed as taboo and off-limits in polite company.
As a result, we easily get the idea we shouldn’t consider money matters at all when assessing a new partnership’s long-term potential. Nearly all women appreciate men who are careful and conscientious about money.
"Either way he's giving you a preview of how he will treat you when the novelty wears off," says money expert Margie Baldock, author of . "Nothing says I'm keeping our dates casual—and you in the friend zone—more than repetitive coffee dates," says author and columnist Dave Singleton.