Can good looks be intimidating
Michael believes the issue is common due to a widespread problem among women of insecurity and poor self-image.
‘I think a lot of women are insecure these days, because there’s so much pressure from social media to look good and be perfect.
He's a tall guy with a healthy bank account, a good head on his shoulders, and a rugged ex-Marine Corps background.
On top of all that, he's studied game under many of the more notable seduction gurus that have come and gone.
Chase woke up one day in 2004 tired of being alone.
So, he set to work and read every book he could find, studied every teacher he could meet, and talked to every girl he could talk to to figure out dating.
‘I think sometimes women think that because you’re attractive you won’t be interested in them.
He's tried taking it slow and stretching things out across multiple dates. He tried an exercise I gave him, where his mission was to invite one girl home each day for 30 days, including women he'd just met on the street.‘It feels like no one will give you a chance.’ The Oxford University findings came from analysis of the habits of more than 150,000 straight daters over a ten-year period on dating site, Eharmony.Coming to a similar conclusion as Michael, lead researcher, Taha Yasseri, professor of Computational Social Science, believes that women feel intimidated by men they view as extremely good-looking.He has little difficulty to get them out onto dates either.
Many of them come home to his place after, and often he's able to kiss them and begin the escalation. Because almost every single woman he ends up this far with (and he gets this far with of girls) puts the brakes on hard and leaves.
I get worried that this person might be too cocky or too much into themselves or might have the wrong intentions. He is a great looking guy”, but then I come to a conclusion that he is too perfect and I get worried he might be too much into himself or that he may have the wrong intentions.